Whats your biggest Sexual Organ??

So I have been wondering all week what topic I should choose for my next post! The site has been getting lots of hits from some very interesting search terms… and they are a great prompt for some new posts!! I have however been doing some research on the Brain and how it is the Most Important Sexual Organ we have.

Both sexes have a very mixed up opinion of what the opposite sex finds sexy. You could try and group people into specific fields and say, ‘Men find women sexy when they are naked!’ but at exactly the same time another man might say, ‘No way, women in lingerie are sexy!’ So I do not want to say what does what for who. I do want to point out that these are external stimuli which vary between people and are never consist.

So how is Sex in the Brain?! Why is it the Most important Sexual Organ?! Well everyone has the desire to be loved or wanted. They want to know that their partner finds them attractive. These desires are rooted not in physical act of sex, but in the Brain. Honestly… why do you think we have the saying or need, ‘to get in the mood’, because it all starts in the brain!! We cannot initiate sex unless we’ve been thinking about it, or have it on our minds at that time!

The brain also controls most of the bodies sexual responses, from releasing sexual hormones (Oxytocin, being one of them) and even beginning to create mental imagery and storing all of your sexual experiences you have experienced! You often here people say things like, ‘You’ll never forget your first!’ and this is probably true, your brain will have had such a large influence in and during your first sexual experience that chances are very high that you will never forget it.

Another reason to save sex until marriage, that ‘memory’ is another way that we are bonded to our sexual partners and saving that memory till marriage can only mean great things for your marriage relationship. That memory is another part of you that is now filled with the other person, its another part of you that has been given to them and that can never be given back.