What do You find Inspirational?!

Hey, so lately I have been thinking about what is it that motivates me to stay virgin till marriage?! That got me thinking that I should ask the question online, coz some people don't even think about it like I do. So yeah, just putting that out there and open to discussion!!!
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What motivates me to stay a virgin till marriage is my own personal choice and the fact that there are many emotional decisions involved when having sex, and that I can be worry free from catching STDs.

Because it is my body and I will do what I want with it. Nobody is going to bully me into doing the most intimate act known to humanity unless it is under my conditions. There is something depraved about a society that laughs at you (or worse) for protecting your sexuality, for seeing yourself as valuable and special, for wanting a formal lifelong committment before taking part in such a deep and intimate act.

Notice how people often talk of how they "made love" and "had sex", with no mention of the other party. It is as if there was no one else there, or at least no one significant. Sex indeed is quite cheap these days. Anyone who makes it dear is a special, important person. That is what we are.

U make such a good point regarding the fact that people always say, 'they made love' excluding the other person! WOW!!! Never thought of it that way before!!!

Same here. It's sad though, it does take two to tango.

Yeah, that's true LadyTiger!
Finding that other, that has also kept themselves, seems to be the most complicated part of life these dayz!